enough to kill a person with ocd

July 23, 2008

yesterday, i took my go-cart in for an oil change and a tune-up.  this car is ELEVEN years old with 80K miles on it, AND it’s paid for.  don’t you love cars that are paid for?  i sure do.

anyway, i haven’t really had to replace a lot on the car due to the first four years i owned it i was traveling by airplane, rather than car AND getting a car allowance.  the car is in pretty good shape considering it’s age.

so anyways, my daughter and i drop it off at the place and they say it’ll be an hour.  then, we had planned on doing some small shopping and eat lunch, within walking distance to the car fixing place.

it turned out that a whole lotta stuff needed replacing, so it ended up taking four hours and about $500 dollars.  when i picked it up, they mentioned that there would probably be some smoke burning off the engine for a bit due to the work they did.

(for the past couple of weeks the car will only start on days that it chooses too.)

this morning, i tried to start it up to take the boy to gymnastics camp and no dice.  later in the day when it was to be time for the husband to stop working, we’d discussed taking it to an auto zone place to test the starter and the alternator.  i decided to skip that until tomorrow and the husband went to pick up the girl in the go-cart.  it started up just fine.

the problem arose when he got home and the car would not turn off.  i was in the garden, doing my garden duties and i wondered to myself why is he gunning the car like that, he’s going to flood it.

soon after he came walking over to tell me that the car would not turn off.  i’ve never heard of a car not turning off in my life but i was open to the idea of it i guess.  i went to inspect it for myself and by george the man was right, the car wouldn’t stop.  in fact, the damn thing started moving (emergency brake on), shaking, and smoking.

turns out, the car was on fire underneath the hood.

i’ve only heard about cars being on fire.  it’s a standard question i’ve asked throughout my life to an array of mechanics as i’ve pretty much always only had bomber cars.  i’d take the car in for a typical oil change and casually ask the mechanic if it was possible the car would catch on fire and explode.

not one person ever told me yes, it will catch on fire and explode.  those are the things i actually worry about, you know the things you’ve never really “heard” of happening.  kind of like spontaneous combustion.  i believe in that, b/c who’s to say that it can’t happen if they’ve never actually seen it “NOT” happen?  i always like to keep an open mind.

the car finally sputtered itself to death and stopped.  i went inside to check on the home pc, (i’d been running some diagnostics on it throughout the day), and check on the sweet potato fries in the oven.

i noticed the puppy had just thrown up carrots and was in the processing of trying to re-eat the carrots, and the phone rang. to recap:  checking food in oven, doing the pc thing, watching the dog throw up and my car is literally on fire in the driveway.

did any of us panic?  no, not a one of us panicked.  in fact, it was just business as usual over here.  i wondered if that is a bad sign, that we’re so used to total disasters happening all at once?

i’m fairly certain the car isn’t drivable, and that i’ll have to call the boys at the shop tomorrow to have them tow it in and see if they can fix what is obviously still broken.

later, after we’d eaten dinner and had a great cheesecake (from costco) with fresh rasberries AND strawberries we were all outside just playing around and talking.  despite the calamity of the day these are the days i’ll remember, when we were all home at the same time (a miracle) and just enjoying each others company.  i can’t imagine that life can get much better than that.


this is my first re-run post (that i can recall)

July 23, 2008

i got a new comment on this post from almost a year ago, the comment is weird enough to be funny.  i can’t tell if it is spam or not, but it’s funny so whatever it’s staying.

if you are in the market for a new career, or perhaps you want to find something that would match your likes with your skills, this is a neat little test that is fairly accurate in placement.  (note:  i am not a professional job getter/suggester.  rather, i just put stuff out into the world and if it is to be, then it will be.)

the first box you will see is the visual chart, and then below that it goes into more detail.  one part of the detail that really hit me in the nose today was the following that i’ve highlighted in red and BOLD and BIG.

this sentence could be used to describe me for the rest of my life and it would be enough.  (not that i cannot “bring the thunder” when i need to.)  if it is something i feel strongly about, i can really bring the thunder.

NFs despise conflict. They will do everything they can to make sure their loved ones get along with each other and are happy.

Click to view my Personality Profile page

the breakdown of the chart and what it all means, i’m a big hippie:

INFP – The “Dreamer”

INFPs are introspective, private, creative and highly idealistic individuals that have a constant desire to be on a meaningful path. They are driven by their values and seek peace. Empathetic and compassionate, they want to help others and humanity as a whole. INFPs are imaginative, artistic and often have a talent for language and writing. They can also be described as easygoing, selfless, guarded, adaptable, patient and loyal.

NF Temperament – The “Visionaries”

NFs are introspective, intuitive and highly idealistic. They are subjective, compassionate “feeler” people that desire to contribute goodness and meaning to the lives of others. They are effective at doing this through their nurturing, insightful and encouraging nature. NFs despise conflict. They will do everything they can to make sure their loved ones get along with each other and are happy. NFs are imaginitive, creatively inclined and passionate about their choice causes.

could adding this internet test to my resume land me a fancy job?  stranger things have happened you know.

INFP Career Matches

INFPs are often happy with the following jobs which tend to match well with the Dreamer/Visionary personality.

  • Activist
  • Actor
  • Architect
  • Artist
  • Church Worker
  • Counselor
  • Editor
  • Educational Consultant
  • Employee Development Specialist
  • Fashion Designer
  • Filmmaker
  • Graphic/Web Designer
  • Holistic Health Practitioner
  • Human Resources
  • Journalist
  • Legal Mediator
  • Librarian
  • Massage Therapist
  • Minister
  • Missionary
  • Musician
  • Photographer
  • Physical Therapist
  • Psychologist/Counselor
  • Researcher
  • Social Scientist
  • Social Worker
  • Speech Pathologist
  • Teacher/Professor
  • Translator/Interpreter
  • Video Editor
  • Writer